童话 Fairy tale

男同事问我，多几年后是不是嫁人，然后回怡保过着幸福快乐的生活？我当然想啦！但是那只会在童话故事里出现，现实生活是不可能的。

童话是什么？Wikipedia找来了答案：童话是一种文学作品，通常是给小孩子的，字品通俗，象儿童说话一样。一般童话里有很多超自然人物，如会说话的动物，精灵，仙女，巨人等。大多童话人物是公主和王子，有快乐的结局。

发觉童话是从西方国家发起的。中国古代爱情故事，多是悲剧收场或普普通通的结局。古代的公主是没有婚姻选择权的，被嫁去别的国家也是为了建立两国的和好关系. 更多：七世夫妻。

小时候，我们看了太多童话式的卡通片（美人鱼，白雪公主，睡美人等等）。似乎潜意识里认为生活就能像童话般美丽。走在街上，应该有90%的女孩希望自己能像童话里的公主一样找个白马王子结婚去，然后过着幸福美满的生活。

这种心态，好像不是很健康， 因为远离了现实。所期待的“童话”不会出现，但只会把自己弄得遍体鳞伤。现实的爱情，不会像故事或影片那么“漂亮”，爱情是生活的一部分。每分每秒爱情在走着，每分每秒爱情在改变，每分每秒爱情在考验。。。。。。。学会生活，学会爱人。

童话是梦，别睡下去了，醒来吧！

My colleague asked me, am I going to get married later and move back to Ipoh….and live happily ever after. Yayaya……I oso wished to. But this will only happen in fairy tale, not in real world.

What is fairy tale? Wikipedia : A fairy tale is a story featuring folkloric characters such as fairies, goblins, elves, trolls, giants, talking animals and others. These stories often involve royalty, and modern versions usually have a happy ending.

Most of the “happy ending” fairy tale came from the West. In the East, all the love stories will have a “sad ending” or ordinary ending. Princesses in ancient China are married to other countries in order to tie a good relationship with that country.

Nowadays, most of the girls like fairy tales. Maybe we watched too much Disney cartoon (Sleeping Beauty, Snow White, Little Mermaid, etc). We wished that one day we found our handsome prince and have a happy life. Ermmm……….that one is a fairy tale, in real life love story may not be such “pretty” as the cartoon or movie. Love is moving, changing, growing every second. Learn to live, learn to love. CHEERS!